8: BOYFRIENDS

Now apologies to all my readers, well all several of you! i know i haven't written on this for some time so forgive me but i have been distracted for the past six months by a very wonderful thing!!!

i'm talking about my BOYFRIEND!! Chris Winfield. (the hot guy with the mohawk)

Now in fully keeping with the message of this blog and me trying not to gush about howhot he is, i am going to attempt to explain why gays love having boyfriends.

Ok here it is, put it simply that nothing feels as amazing as waking up on a weekend morning in bed next to someone without any plans and knowing you can just spend the day together.

I have been obsessed about touching things for all my life (STOP IT!) maybe it was about making something real by being able to touch, it was what always frustrated me about museums that you could only look and never touch. now i have touched antiques and artifacts that are hundreds if not thousands of years old, opening an old book that different people have read at different times of their lives knowing that your hands are in the same place i always found rather magical but i can now say that the spark of that first touch of the hand between two people who have fallen in love trumps any feeling of that connecting through time because all that matters is being with another person and being in exactly the same place physically and emotionally..

and i think that is the crux or at least its the reason i can give as why gays love boyfriends. To know that you can make a difference everyday to someone else's life and feel totally fulfilled by that to know that sometimes nothing needs to be said but a complete understanding is known

and as we begin to turn my messy tut filled flat into our home i feel like a great adventurer just setting sale.

our first home purchase!